What can I do now…?

Many friends asked, is there a way to avoid having all the negativities in life? Is there a way that we can have the only positives in life? Some of them seem hopeless, some seek alternatives, some wounded badly from life….

We keep chasing after to have a perfect living and we think we would be happy when we are living in this ‘perfect’ life. We avoid things that are unpleasant along the journey; we carefully make the decisions that with higher chance to be successful. Yet, there are times that we still fail to predict the future accurately.

Remember that your unconscious mind works on the least effort to achieve your goals. Humps and bumps in life help us to learn to get up and stay up strong. Some too attentive parents are still overly protecting their children to avoid the falls, which the children would not learn on how to stand up by themselves.

In life it is not so much about failing and falling, it is about how to seek opportunities during the down side of your life. It is because we can never stop our love ones leaving us at their old age or little discomfort along the journey like making the wrong decisions, thefts, separations,…

Yes, you may say that ‘the law of attraction’ is the answer to get the positives only. Yes, you may see people who were born with abundance and among some are lucky in their life, yet you forget to focus on how they keep their spirit up to have faith in themselves that they BELIEVING IS SEEING. Thus, they focus SELF, focus the OBJECTIVES and DRIVE through it. That is how they gain positives with lesser falling.

Whereas, many of us still need proof and wanting that ‘seeing is believing’. The missing essence are, they focus on avoiding humps and bumps, distractions by the past failing stories, and aiming only the perfect future that they have forgotten about what they can do now.

The journey to seek true happiness, success and love in life is to stay positive, treat every falling as an opportunity to learn, to get up by finding the solution with the question of:

WHAT CAN I DO NOW IN ORDER TO MAKE IT BETTER?

Thinking XV

There are some of us who are always at peace and evolve fast ……

They are those who accept all there is …… understand that they are part of the ONE as everything in the universe…….

They accept all the positives and the negatives in life, and go through them patiently………

They, most of the time, are loner and they focus what they want to do…….. by going with the flow ……

Others may perceive them as uncanny, selfish or boring…….

They are just who they are and accept all there is ………

They are the observers as they understand they have to leave others to walk their path ……. Instead of carrying them during their turbulence ……. That is to allow others to realize to be independent and aware that they are more than who they think they are …..

They understand and respect others who have DECIDED to experience what they want to experience, and learn what they need to learn …..

Most of the time they are the messengers when it is necessary to give pointers to those who seek ….. about life as they are those who DECIDED to evolve…. They share ….. about what they know ……………..

As they understand and accept that ….. all and everything is ONE ….. that is what within us ……..

That is WHO AM I ………

That’s right …..

That’s right …………..

Thinking XIV

Life consists of the positive and the negative ……..

It is where we are now …… the imperfection that is perfect…

We came from perfection, now at imperfection (that is perfect)… moving to perfection …

Human being human … if everything is perfect …… they will find life is boring ….. and look for excitement …………

Hmmm… Not true. We always ‘seek’ perfect and peaceful life.

Some of us (seems like) have everything, they tend to look for ‘higher’ excitement like taking drugs, indulge in violent games, watching drama series, adultery, alcohol, gambling,… that is just life is too peaceful …… they want to stir their emotion intentionally…….. as they say, to make life more colorful…… They named those loners as ‘boring’ or anti-social…

Those are the activities that we enjoy doing, like you said there is no such thing as good or bad.

Yes, you learn well…. Very well……..

When a person looking for ways to dissociate himself, that is when he tends to forget who he is ……. That is WHO AM I …….

When a person is experiencing a trauma, he starts to ponder about life, evolve more if the person DECIDED to….

Aren’t they anyone who are peaceful and yet evolving fast?

Yes, they are such people ………..