Time

In welcoming the new year of 2009, some of us have new year resolutions…

 

Almost all of us like to use time as a measurement of achievement. Time is precious, that’s what people say. However, keeping time alive is unpleasant. The past is just a memory and it gives us an identity (ego).

 

The future is an illusion. Some of us take it as a salvation. But future will come to us as present moment. Remember, unconscious mind has no time dimension.

 

In life, we learned through experience, not so much by words. That’s why we have internship, experiments, practical work,… Many times, parents or friends share with us incidences that they have experienced, we can only understand but lack of the feeling to the situation. Until we face the similar circumstances, we then realized ‘Ah!! That’s how it feels like!’.

 

A few feedbacks that I do not understand them or even expect me to solve issues for them. The question is ‘Have you learned the lessons of what you are facing now?’ If you have, you would already have the solutions to your issues. Solving an issue for others is easy, however, you have asked to go through situations to learn. Thus, if lessons not learn yet the issue solved, similar problem will re-appear until the day you learn and know how to solve the issue by yourself. What others can do for you is to give you guidance (map) when you are ready to accept the truth and move forward (drive a bus).

 

Some readers are curious, things seems come so easy to me. Yes, I am here sharing with you of what I am teaching myself, I should say, remembering things (unconscious mind knows everything). Of course, many teaching comes from my personal experience (within) and I cannot open a book to type out a summary to share with you.

 

Appreciate every single moment that you have (now), whether it is good or bad, positive or negative, fair or unfair,… life has always planned for you to evolve, to your final destination (home). All the events that happen in life have a blueprint that you have asked for (the journey) to experience and to learn (who you are).

 

There are times that you may come to circumstances that you do not know how to move forward, yet in years later, you have a clearer picture of why did it happen. When you realized it, you may say ‘I am glad…’ Turn every moment into a golden opportunity and all there is.

 

E.g. I have a friend who shared with me about his frustration dropped out story during college, years later, as in now, he is sharing his dropped out experience with his psychology students (parents) and he is doing very well.

 

Everyone has a story to tell, but let the past rest and move forward from here, RIGHT NOW…