Thnking VII

Thinking, still thinking…..

Children and adults…. Are they both the same?

Yes, they are….

They both have emotions, they both need to eat, sleep, drink, learn,…

It is just that, Children are learning to be more HUMAN…. Adults are learning to fit in the human race….

What do you mean? Aren’t children are human too?

Yes, they are. They are first learning to use their tools as to use their hands to eat, their legs to walk, they can be even very flexible… suck their toe, lick the floor, play with urine, make friends without talking… always be honest, play with fire fearlessly, talk with mouthful of food, ….

It is because they don’t know yet, they don’t know what are toes, floor, urine…. They just not knowing yet…. The danger, the hygiene,…

You see, they are learning to be a HUMAN, to learn to be restricted and to be socially acceptable… as a HUMAN….

Hmmm….. It is hard to be a human. Not only need to be structured like speak good English, excellent in social etiquette, with certificates as a bench mark, a house that you live in,…. Even in appearance.... so many rules to follow…

What is the sum of all these??
That’s sounds like being a human is just meeting the expectation of others….

Is that right? The EXPECTATION?

Yes. There is always a measurement of something. Like a man should be at certain height or size in order to feel good. And a lady needs to be flawless in complexion for them to be confident.

What if….

What if the person has perfect of height, size, complexion, or whatever the public may deem s/he is perfect in a perfect environment?

Then the person will still find a spot like a small pimple on a perfect skin to show others that s/he is not perfect.

Or in contrast, human ego mind will hide all the flaws from others…

Hmmm…..

Is there anyone that is not into these two extreme?

Yes, there are…..