What can I do now…?

Many friends asked, is there a way to avoid having all the negativities in life? Is there a way that we can have the only positives in life? Some of them seem hopeless, some seek alternatives, some wounded badly from life….

We keep chasing after to have a perfect living and we think we would be happy when we are living in this ‘perfect’ life. We avoid things that are unpleasant along the journey; we carefully make the decisions that with higher chance to be successful. Yet, there are times that we still fail to predict the future accurately.

Remember that your unconscious mind works on the least effort to achieve your goals. Humps and bumps in life help us to learn to get up and stay up strong. Some too attentive parents are still overly protecting their children to avoid the falls, which the children would not learn on how to stand up by themselves.

In life it is not so much about failing and falling, it is about how to seek opportunities during the down side of your life. It is because we can never stop our love ones leaving us at their old age or little discomfort along the journey like making the wrong decisions, thefts, separations,…

Yes, you may say that ‘the law of attraction’ is the answer to get the positives only. Yes, you may see people who were born with abundance and among some are lucky in their life, yet you forget to focus on how they keep their spirit up to have faith in themselves that they BELIEVING IS SEEING. Thus, they focus SELF, focus the OBJECTIVES and DRIVE through it. That is how they gain positives with lesser falling.

Whereas, many of us still need proof and wanting that ‘seeing is believing’. The missing essence are, they focus on avoiding humps and bumps, distractions by the past failing stories, and aiming only the perfect future that they have forgotten about what they can do now.

The journey to seek true happiness, success and love in life is to stay positive, treat every falling as an opportunity to learn, to get up by finding the solution with the question of:

WHAT CAN I DO NOW IN ORDER TO MAKE IT BETTER?