It is still a choice!

There are times we knew in side, there is a decision to be made for a change. Yet we still drag the issue along while we walk. It could be the doubt not significant enough for us to make the change, yet the ‘doubt’ keeps coming into our quiet mind. It is just like months before the wedding day. There are a few who have this doubt that they may not have made the right decision. However, the calling of wanting to meet expectations pressing in as though it is a self inflicted conflict. And with the fear of ‘loosing out’ and ‘being alone’ stepping in to haunt especially during festive seasons.

To some it is just a minor dilemma, whether to follow the heart or the mind in eagerly wanting to be accepted and avoiding the truth.

There are times that a minor symptom of illness shows from a conflict, unhappiness, stress, anger… that has become headache, backache, giddiness, sore… that many of us continue to walk as they tell themselves ‘I have no time to discover that, just a little while more, I will be O.K.’ They bear the discomfort as the discomfort is getting more and more serious to a major ‘dis-ease’. They do not think they need to change because this is their ‘principle’; this is their way of life. They do not realize that they have the choice to be at peace, calmness, happiness and positive. Even to some of them, the negative emotions are too overwhelming that they could not believe that there is always bright light at the end of the tunnel.

When the pain is getting worse, they seem awaken from an uncontrollable dream, or for some, have recognized and accepted it that they cannot remember on how they were originally without the pain. Then they start to blame the world that has been unfair to them and their painful stories have become their own identities.

We always feel comfortable when we are at a familiar environment or with little goodies ahead. What we do not realized is that the world is evolving very fast. Change is part of the essence of life as long as we are willing to let go of the floating device (control) and float with the current (surrender). That is to learn, to make the change and move forward. Everyone has to move, if not, pain will set in to push us if we keep avoiding it.

Now the choice is yours, either you welcome the change and float with the current, or be push by pain. We always be given a choice in life, don’t we?