Believing is seeing

26 September 2008

Sometimes we may wonder, why successful people are so calm and focus on things that they set out to do, and stubbornly never give up. Compare to those who are in the comfort zone or always say ‘in deep trouble’, or in the denial to have a slight thought of changing of mind.

We are moving from imperfection to perfection. We never stop creating desires. Whether you like it or not, we create things that happen to us. Our experiences, our daily activities, and good or bad life situations…we create all that. The universe never gets tired in responding to our requests.

It is just like a friend of mine explained to me:

You walk into a restaurant, you order your favorite dish ‘Chicken wings’. You only need to order once to the waiter, and you know ‘chicken wings’ will be served to your table. You do not need to wonder how the chef prepares the dish in the kitchen. And you know that you will enjoy the dish soon. And this is how successful people operate.

In contrast, some of them are not 100% congruent even after they have ordered the dish. They look around on how others are enjoying their dishes, and thinking to have beefsteak instead. Some even walk by the kitchen to peep how the chef or kitchen looks like. Their favorite dish ‘chicken wings’ has been served to the table and yet they still have a slight moment of thinking ‘beefsteak might be better’. That’s what happens to those who claim that they always fail.

These people are full of worries. Their minds run wild on how they fail even the incident has not arrived, they have phrases like ‘How others look at me…’, ‘In case…’, ‘What if…’, ‘But…’ ‘I should…’ … despite of having sun shines all the time!! They are focusing on the lacks and failures. And remember, the unconscious mind does not process negatives.

In contrast, some people are making big buck even during the economy downturn. They know it is always coming to them. It is like an architect look at a space, have an image in mind, than draft out a plan and eventually a magnificent building standing at the space!

‘Believing is seeing’ is how the universe works. When you have a moment of thought, ONLY focus on things that you want specifically. Faithfully and patiently, your dream will come true.