Learn from the opposite

Life is about taking opportunity to move forward regardless it is a pleasant or unpleasant situation. Normally, we feel that we do not learn anything when we are happy. It is because we ignore the gentle whispering from our unconscious mind and situations still under ‘control’.

 

When a circumstance seems unmanageable, we started to ‘blame’ or give ‘excuses’ to give ourselves credits that we were not prepared for. That is the ‘ego’ thingy playing in us and we should take care of our ‘face’.

 

All our prayers are always answered right in front of us. We sometimes oblivious to it and choose to have this ‘face’ thingy, that seems as our priority over the LOVE and EVOLVEMENT in life.

 

We must understand this, when we ask for wealth, our answers always give us the opportunity to be wealthy, not wealth itself. When we pray for patience, gives us not the patience, but the opportunity to be patient. Same thing, when we want to learn to forgive self and others, we always given opportunity to forgive and forget.

 

Therefore, it is the ‘opportunity’ that we tend to avoid. We want it to be just here for us to pick up and change in side. Well, it is that easy if we pay attention to every moment we have and be there 100% present and listen to your heart.

 

Some of us have unpleasant experience with ungrateful people around them. Then learn that what is not acceptable and create the wonderful opposite and appreciate the lessons learnt. It is because we learn from the opposite too as long as we are there 100% present. Like, when we are not happy, we learn that we want to be happy. When we face failure, we learn our mistake and to be successful. Like wise, we dislike ungrateful people, we learn to be grateful and what not to do, as we understand how the receiver feels like.

 

We do not need to feel an intense dislike of a person or situation, which it is harmful to self and people around. Let go the negative emotions as a huge barrier to joy and allow freedom comes to you so that we learn with smooth sail. Joy is always comes from within.

 

Some of us may find it hard to do the opposite to the person who s/he may want to avoid in contact. The way to do this is to stay present whenever you think of this person, which does not hold any negative emotion. Best still, send great amount of love to the person that eventually leads to forgiveness.

 

Please take every moment to be opportunity to learn and move forward. Love is all there is.