Be yourself...

Dilemma happens when both sides of the equation are desirable. When we have a dilemma, we tend to feel uneasy and even stress. What’s going on in side us?
The conscious mind and the unconscious mind are fighting.

Most of the time, to be yourself, the unconscious mind, is talking.

On the other hand, comfort and to be socially acceptable side, the conscious mind, persuading you what is right or wrong to do.

What do you do?

Yes, listen to your heart. We always hear the ‘but, but, but….’

You mean you are not comfortable to be yourself?

You feel uneasy just to make the decision to feel who you are?

Then how could you say you can take care of someone if you feel uncomfortable to be yourself?

How could you say you can live without anyone and yet you are not being yourself?

Most importantly, how could you stretch out to help more if you are not centered to be yourself?

Then you say ‘But, but, but, ….. the future maybe this or that…’

You can’t even handle ‘now’ to make a simple decision and why do you need to take care of the future?

What makes you think that the future would be easier?

Did you think the same way ten years ago?
The future would be easier?

What happen now as ten years later?

In the actual fact, time is just a measurement created by the human to measure past, present and future. There is no time at all and everything is just happen now.

Now is the matter.
We handle what we need to handle now and ‘now’ is all we have. Once you focus the ‘now’ and be yourself, there is no question of being in a dilemma!

We stop growing when we try to handle the past and the future. That’s when we hear people saying ‘I’m stuck!’. We evolve much faster and at ease when we just focus the now. The nature will take place to lead us to move forward. The nature will take care of everything for what is needed for us to learn within us.

Remember when we were little, we peed in our pants while we slept and we did not worry about we would continue doing that when we grow up. The nature takes place for us to learn when we need to use the washroom even in the middle of deep sleep now. Yes, you may say, our parents trained us to do that. That’s right, the nature takes place to have them to train us, and also we notice the discomfort that we have and the function of the washroom too.

Ah! I think I have been thinking too much. It is just the joy of being myself. Hahahha……