Focus on Self Only

 

I am finally back from the mountain of knowledge. I am back to my flying routine, observing my day-to-day activity. Though I miss the days in the mountain, just focus learning about myself, and function to be a better human.

 

Sometimes, maybe you have experienced…. There are times that you cannot understand why things that have presented in front of you. Though you may wonder in many reasons there are repeated pattern in your life…

 

This could be repeated pattern in how you face similar situations, could be at work when your demanding boss request you to do a certain tasks that have conflict in your value and beliefs, or your family member always give you the same issues to handle.

 

This issues keep coming back to you repeatedly…. in many ways..

 

Sometimes you say to yourself  : Not Again!

 

Though you may think that you are under control of everything that comes to you most of the time. You feel that you know what you are doing that produces best result that could be. That is the best that you could do… all this while…

 

Until one day, you found out there is a better way to manage the same situation. You realized you have wasted so much time and effort. Yes, it could be someone mentioned it before or you knew the answer before, but just, at that time you were not receptive enough to capture the new way of doing things.

 

You just do not understand why you behaved such a way?

 

You feel like you have walked through a long journey, just to come to a small step ahead only….

 

Just don’t understand why…..

 

You have been very careful of everything that you do… You thought you were doing the best that you could….

 

You just did not grasp hold of the essence of learning at that time…

 

Hmm….

 

That reminds me of someone was telling me about…

 

We take one step at a time with our own pace…

 

Sometimes there are things that we tried so hard to reach, be it a learning process, or a statement… We just could not understand….

 

That’s right….

 

Therefore, we just take one step at a time… by comparing to the self not to others.

 

Ever individual is unique, and walk at a different pace in life…

 

We are NOT comparing to others in order to improve ourselves…

 

We could observe others in what we can improve in ourselves, but NOT comparing with them…

 

We are here to improve ourselves in each step that we take…. Each step that we move ahead is always better than the step before….

 

We are just comparing to self only…

 

By doing so, you will find yourself moving even faster than you could imagine of…

 

This is what we meant by FOCUS ON SELF ONLY…

 

This is one of the major learning that I have gained during my NLP Trainer’s Training in the mountain of knowledge…