Perception is Perception

In NLP, we learn Perception is Projection.

 

That means what’s happening to your surrounding is a reflection from the in side of you….

 

How others treating you is eventually how you treat yourself unconsciously…. either you are aware or unaware of it consciously….

 

In life, sometimes, …

 

There are times; you feel you are a victim. Victim of being cheated by a business partner, victim of being betray in a relationship, victim of being a loser in an unreasonable competition, victim of being used, victim of being out cast in a community…

 

In order to be a successful victim, most of the time, there must be a bad person to be blamed of…. The person, who has done something unacceptable in a society, be it hurting the victim, doing harm to the victim.

 

S/he has done something that in conflict in value and belief system with the victim…

 

A successful victim has to being perceived as a good person, in fact innocent in the whole situation.

 

Many of us, unconsciously acting as a victim and pointing finger to others about what others have done wrong that caused us to feel hurt.

 

The victim, most of the time, is not aware of what s/he is treating oneself in the unconscious mind, that projected on the out side on how others treating him / her.

 

This will become a repeated pattern if the lessons not learn… in many areas in life… for years and sometime even a lifetime long…

 

Wonder you remember?

 

Every fall that you experienced is to make you to become a stronger person.

 

You become wiser by gaining each lesson that you learned.

 

You know that, right?

 

From there, people will tell you about forgive and forget about the person’s wrong doing… Right?

 

With all the opportunity of the knowledge and lessons that you have gained, we should extend our apologies to the person who hurt us in the first place.

 

???

 

Why? Why do we need to?

 

Think carefully…..

 

The person has to act in a role of being a bad person for us to learn about ourselves. Don’t you think it is an ugly role to play with?

 

The person who has taken up the role of being ugly for you to learn….

 

or as a reminder for you to learn how you treat yourself in side,

 

s/he is a truly victim…...

 

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Perception is Projection

 

Hahahah………..